True Christmas Spirit...

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It's Christmas Eve. Christmas is celebrated by billions around the world. It is the celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ. The exact day of birth of Jesus is not really known, but most accepted is December 25. In most countries the christian meaning of Christmas is combined with local pre-Christ tradition. Decorating trees, giving presents and Santa Claus are examples of those local traditions.
Christmas is increasingly celebrated by not Christians as well.

I grew up in the Netherlands in a Catholic family. Overtime the way we celebrate Christmas changed and many other thing stayed the same. It seems that getting together and the evening-dinner are the most important parts of this holiday celebration today. For as far as I can see it, this is how a lot of people celebrate Christmas.

It might seem that the original meaning of Christmas is more and more disappearing, but as with all things, this is in my mind just a matter of perspective. Celebrating abundant with friends and family and seeing Christmas as a holiday of peace embraced now by billions of people is for me a wonderful way of celebrating the original meaning of Christmas.

I wish you all the merriest Christmas, I hope you can carry the spirit of Christmas throughout the entire year. My heart goes out to those who are not together with their loved ones this Christmas.

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New Years Resolution IV: make success a habit.

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In the previous posts on this topic I gave you already four guiding principles to help you achieving your New Years Resolutions for 2014.
- Make sure that it's your resolution and not someone else's.
- Formulate it in a positive way, so avoid negative words.
- Make sure that your resolution meets your personal standards and common sense.
- Create a support group for your resolution.

Browse back to the older posts on this topic to read more.

Today you'll get two more  guidelines:

Instead of just having your resolution in your mind, write it down and more importantly read it at least one time a day. It's more than a reminder. You literally have to imprint it in your mind. Remember you want to change something that has been a habit for you for a long time (smoking, bad eating habits etc).

Secondly,  it is better to have one resolution that you will achieve than multiple without achieving any. People often want to reach too many things at the same time. It is good to be ambitious, but work from success to success, so that success can become a habit.

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Be like Scrooge...

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I already told you that I'm a sucker for the holidays. I like it all: the decorations, the food, the get together with family and friends, but mostly I like The Christmas Story after all that's what we celebrate.

Today however I would like to talk a little about another famous christmas story, the one about Ebenezer Scrooge. The main character in Charles Dicken's tale is portrayed by countless actors in countless plays and movies. My favorite one is George C. Scott.

Charles Dickens wrote his story in 1843, but hasn't lost any of its beauty and profoundness. On hindsight of the story you can see that Scrooge was fortunate to get first a reflection of his past and present and then a preview of a possible future.

Wouldn't it be nice if once a year we were visited  by our ghosts of the past, present and future so that we can make a course correction as Ebenezer Scrooge did? We are not able to see into the future, but we can do a reasoning whether a continuation on the line of our past produces a preferable future or not. After all the past leaves traces. There is a saying: "if you want to know some ones future look at his or hers past". This is however only true if you don't make any changes when the results of your past and present advices you to do so.

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It's A Wonderful Life...

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Today was Sunday, it is freezing outside and too slippery to go out; what better thing to do than to watch an old movie? With Christmas approaching you can't go wrong with "It's A Wonderful Life". A  movie directed by Frank Capra, with the unforgettable James Stewart and the beautiful Donna Reed in the leading roles.

George Bailey (James Stewart) tried his whole life to escape Bedford Falls, a small town community, but never succeeds. His sense of responsibility to take over his father's old job  keeps him from seeing the world and getting a college degree. When he seems to have found peace by staying in his hometown and starting a family with his high school love, an unexpected event drives him close to commit suicide. He believes that his life is worthless, with no meaning for others. An angel named Clarence saves George and shows him how the life of people would have been if George wouldn't have been in their lives. 

This old black and white movie delivers a very profound message. Life doesn't always fulfill the dreams we hope for, sometimes our destiny drives us to do things we might not like so much but can be very meaningful for others. 

If you follow my blog you know I'm all about chasing your dreams and living boldly, but I have to add that there is probably no higher calling than a life of serving others even if it's not the life you dreamed of.

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Santa and his older colleague

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Today is December 6. I was born in the Netherlands and December 6 is a special holiday for it is St. Nicholas day. St. Nicholas from Myra was a Catholic bishop who lived in the 4th century AD in a province of Byzantine Empire Anatolia, now in Turkey.  He was famous for his generosity especially to the poor. In European countries like Belgium and Germany, but especially the Netherlands, St. Nicholas was depicted as a person with a long white beard and wearing a red cape of traditional Catholic Bishop clothes.

All the kids are led to believe that St. Nicholas still lives in Spain and that once a year he and his aides come over the Netherlands in a steam boat to celebrate his birthday on December 6. The kids present on the night before his birthday.  It is the children's belief that St Nicholas rides with his white horse over the roofs of each family's house and that he delivers presents by having his aides climb through the chimney. St Nicholas keeps a book with records of the children's behavior and all the kids believe that you only get presents if you behaved well.

Since most of you are not Dutch and might not have heard of St. Nicholas, you probably think this story looks incredibly similar with the story of Santa Claus. Even the name looks the same. Well, that is because the legend of Santa Claus is derived from St. Nicholas. He became Santa Claus in the 16th century due to the reformation, where reformers like Luther wanted to ban the belief in the 'holy' people of the Catholic church (St. Nicholas was considered 'holy' by the Catholics).

St. Nicholas day is still celebrated and many children in the Netherlands received presents today and yesterday. Now Santa is not really a Dutch thing, so he won't bring presents on the 25th, although I guess my kids are lucky since they grew up in the Netherlands and in the US, so both Santa and his older colleague, St. Nicholas both pay them a visit each year.

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