Wednesday, April 29, 2015

Sexual abuse secrecy and shame - Live an Empowered Life

Sexual abuse secrecy and shame - Live an Empowered Life



Regardless of how old or how young we are, consciously; we never would like to go out in the open and share or confess the things that we have done wrong. In the case of sexual abuse victims, it would be the things that they believe they did wrong or the belief they did something shameful. This shame over sexual abuse often causes abuse victims to keep the things that happened to them to themselves.
In all sexual abuse cases, this limiting-belief that it is better to keep it a secret, hinders the healing process. It is a huge factor on the victim in moving forward and to seek the needed help in healing.

Monday, April 27, 2015

Sexual abuse, it is my fate - Live an Empowered Life

Sexual abuse, it is my fate - Live an Empowered Life

It is what it is, it is my fate.

It is what it is, it is my fate.

Especially sexual abuse victims who have been abused over longer period of time, develop perception that the situation they were or are into can no longer be changed. Their cry for help has for too long not heard or been fully neglected. Because of this, they keep this limiting-belief that things are the way they are and that they cannot be changeEspecially sexual abuse victims who have been abused over longer period of time, develop perception that the situation they were or are into can no longer be changed. Their cry for help has for too long not heard or been fully neglected. Because of this, they keep this limiting-belief that things are the way they are and that they cannot be changed.


Sunday, April 26, 2015

Isolation after sexual abuse - Live an Empowered Life

Isolation after sexual abuse - Live an Empowered Life

Although Sexual abuse victims know that they are not the only victims they often feel alone in their pain. Either they have never shared what they have been through and/or they believe that they have to deal with it all by themselves. This isolation is often fed by shame, the presure to keep it a secret, guilt or thinking there is no support out there. In all cases this limiting-belief  hinders sexual abuse victims from moving forward and to find healing.